Sunday, April 7, 2013

My Supports


Emotional Support

This is the most important one for me.  I have my God and my husband and friends that I know will be there to encourage me and walk with me through all of life’s challenges.  I have certain friends that support me more in one area then another that I will call upon during specific challenges.  Just telling someone how I feel or what my frustrations are relieves a lot of stress.  It’s great when I can do this without fear of judgment.

Support from others

I have colleges and neighbors that support me by joining me in solving a problem or contributing a specific skill set that they have where I might lack.

Physical Support

There are many things I am just not physically able to do that my husband does such as fixing my car or plumbing.  If it wasn’t for him I would go broke paying other people to do those things.  I find it very helpful to know I can count on these things to be done and it frees up time for me to worry about other things on my list.

I could not imagine how difficult it would be to live without these supports.  I would not be able to do all of the things that I do in life as I would have to spend way too much time doing things that are difficult for me.

Saturday, March 30, 2013

My Connections to Play

This sums it up better then a quote could!
 
 
*       “The end of childhood is when things cease to astonish us. When the world seems familiar, when one has got used to existence, one has become an adult.” ~Eugene Ionesco
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*       My sister and I grew up in a single parent family.  My mom struggled to make ends meet so we never had much in the way of toys.  We even went through a period of time where we had no T.V.  The world became our playground.  All we needed was space and our imaginations.  Our favorite games to play involved horses.  Our bikes or our own legs became the horses.  We created a world of our own and we were always so disappointed to have to stop playing to come in.  We were allowed to ride our bikes anywhere in the neighborhood.  Once we lived near some woods and staked out exotic trails for ourselves, writing our own scripts.  Scripts that looking back were way more exciting than what you see in movies today. 
     Things were so different with my own children.  I could not for safety reasons allow them to ride all over the place with their bikes.  We weren’t rich but they had some of the most popular toys and technology tools.  I remember them complaining a lot about being “bored.”  It saddens to me to think that they missed out on such a gift as play.  True play even in my adulthood is being creative.  Acting out your dreams and visions for life.  True play is getting wrapped up in the moment, where time ceases to exist.
 

Saturday, March 16, 2013

Relationship Reflection


I believe I was created to be in relationship with my God and with other people.  Meaningful relationships in my life are built on mutual trust.  We are there to encourage, strengthen, and see the best in each other.   

I have been married for 26 years.  Our relationship has lasted because of a deep commitment, unconditional love, forgiveness, and at times hard work.  I love being married, but a strong marriage just didn’t happen.  We have learned that the key to our marriage is becoming selfless, putting the others interest in front of our own.  Serving and appreciating each other. 

I have two children that I am very close to.  Two simple rules have kept our relationship strong.  The first when raising them is “let your no mean no.” and the second was to spend time playing with them, taking an interest in their lives.  I am happy to say that they are both productive adults and we are still very close.  Our home is a safe environment where they can feel free to tell me how they feel and what they are going through without being judged or condemned.  I don’t give them advice unless they ask for it, but they ask for it often.  I have always given them freedom to make their own decisions and they have always proven trustworthy. 
 

I have two dogs that are a big part of my life: 
Little-man is a full blood Jack Russell Terrier.  He is full of mischief, smart, a hunter and a playful friend.
Lacey is my study-buddy.  She loves to sit on my lap when I work on my computer.  She is helping me get my masters by helping me relax and concentrate.  She was a rescue that no one wanted, so I got sucked in.
They both sleep with us at night, Little man at the foot of the bed and  Lacy under the covers beside us!

My Church Family
 

I have the privilege of having these young people in my life, many of them I taught when they were in Pre-K!  They come to my house every Friday night to hang out and read the bible.  I guess you could call it "church."  I have invested long term in their lives.  Sometimes I get tired, but I feel real meaningful relationships take an investment of time, that means more then once a week, but mid-week phone calls, meeting for lunch, listening, and supporting them.  I have found it to be so rewarding to watch them grow up!

Saturday, March 2, 2013


Love sees the best in people-
Including children

Assertiveness comes from the Power of Attention.
                                            Focus on what you want to happen.
                                                     -Dr.Becky Baily

Saturday, February 16, 2013

Assessment


What should be measured or assessed in young children?

Before answering this question, I feel that first it is important to define what assessment is.   According to the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) and the National Association of Early Childhood Specialists in State Departments of Education (NAECS/SDE), describes it as “A systematic procedure for obtaining information from observation, interviews, portfolios, projects, tests, and other sources that can be used to make judgments about children’s characteristics.” (NAEYC, 2006)  What this tells us there’s a variety of appropriate practices that should be used in an ongoing manner with young children.  

The point of assessment is to enable teachers and parents to track their progress over time, plan for their continued learning, and report effectively to each other.  Data and information will need to be collected in a variety of developmentally, culturally and linguistically appropriate ways.

I have found that I can gain the most information by observing children in their natural setting and taking objective notes and recording dialogues.  Other forms of assessment such as tracking progress through a list of standard skills, collecting their work samples and photographs in the creation of a portfolio for each student and parent notes and observations all put together give a more accurate picture of the child.  One single method does not measure where a child is developmentally.

The challenge is getting parents to see that this method is more in-depth and valuble then the “report cards” they often look for.  That is why creating a way to also include the parents in the assessment procedure is helpful.  I have done this by creting equal space for parents to comment and give feedback when sharing their evaluations.

References

Gosselin, K. (2004). Spotlight on young children and assessment. National Association for the
       Education of Young Children

Singapore


According to Rotberg (2006), testing in Singapore differs from the United States in that it is not done to evaluate teachers.  The main purpose is instead to determine student placement in their education system.  Over a 10 year span the students are tested to see if they are able to make it into more elite programs.  The better they perform the better school they can get into.  The thinking is that this will aid in training the students to contribute to the national economy.

I chose this country because I have been recently introduced to Singapore math in one of the schools I work with.  It is completely different than traditional programs in that the focus is more on problem solving through hands on manipulation then on memorization.  It turns out that this is a philosophy that the country is trying to move towards this model but it is finding that it is hard to change classroom practice since the test require students to memorize large amounts of material. 

Obviously we are not the only country that seems to have this gap between teaching for student comprehension and flexibility and teaching to the test.

References

Rotberg, I. C. (2006). Assessment Around the World. Educational Leadership, 64(3), 58-63.

Saturday, February 2, 2013


Chaos and Violence

I chose and violence because it is the one example that is the freshest on my mind.  Last year I had a student whose life was always in turmoil.  His mother was very young and her son was the youngest of 6 siblings.  He had very low confidence in his abilities and at first was very withdrawn and afraid to try new things.  His attendance was sporadic and he rarely had a lunch.  As the year progressed I watched him become angry and take some of that aggression out on the other students.  I had several conferences with the mother.  She shared with me that she was overwhelmed working full time and trying to take care of the kids.  She said when she gets home she just collapses and has no energy to help them with their homework.  On top of that she was caring for her ageing mother who had schizophrenia and would be known to have outburst at any given moment.  I found out that she was also sharing a room the boy in my class.  On into the school year I was told that he was not allowed to go with her father because he had beat up the mother and they had put a restraining order against him.  The effect on the child was horrendous.  He had difficulty learning, became very obstinate, and violent toward other students.  I suggested some community resources for the mother but I don’t know if she ever took the advice.  With the child I learned that the more I could do to make him feel “normal” the better his day would go.  For example I would pack him a lunch and put it in his cubby so that when it was time to eat he didn’t feel like he was the only one getting a special lunch from the teacher.  I also found that creating special rituals with him for communicating love was helpful.  The more routine and calm the better things went.  I can’t say that I had complete success and it was one of those situations you always wonder what more you could have done.
 
South African Violence

Several studies have shown that many South African children are suffering from post-traumatic stress syndrome from exposure to violence.  According to Suliman, Kaminer,  Seeda, & Stein a recent study showd that 86% of those studied were exposed to a least one traumatic event. (2005)  More test are needed to really determine how deeply these children are affected.   The Sonke Gender Justice Network is a group of young people who are committed to stopping the violence in South Africa by teaching other young men how to embrace new behavior.  Their web site is here if you would like to learn more about them.  http://www.genderjustice.org.za/

Suliman s., Kaminer D., Seedat S.,  Stein DJ. (2005). Assessing post-traumatic stress disorder in  South

 African adolescents: using the child and adolescent trauma survey (CATS) as a screening tool

Annals of General Psychiatry April 2005, 4:2

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Every 19 seconds a mother looses her child to a water related death!
 
 



I chose water.  Here in this country we have no idea how precious this commodity is.  Clean water is a basic human right, yet so many children in other countries don’t have access to clean water.  According to JAIDS Journal (2005) the water in Uganda has been linked to HHV-8 infection.  These children that were infected were associated with lower socioeconomic status and using surface water. Households with limited access to water may have less hygienic practices that increase risk for HHV-8 infection.  Given the effort it takes to obtain water for their house, this is not surprising.  Dirty water carries disease, worms and leads to diarrhea and other health problems.  This is something we take for granted.  With water so abundant here and so important to the health of our children I plan to make sure that the children in my care get pleanty of it daily.  I hope you take a minute to watch the video.  This would also be a great project to involve classrooms in.  It is simple to understand and there are many ideas for getting involved at Charity: Water                        

Water, Socioeconomic Factors, and Human Herpesvirus 8 Infection in Ugandan Children and Their

Mothers, JAIDS Journal of Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndromes, 1 April 2005 - Volume 38 - Issue 4 - pp 474-479